Audit Your Parenting Style

Q1. Do you encourage your children to pray Salah regularly with love and consistency?

Q2. Do you consciously cultivate a peaceful Islamic environment at home (Dua, Quran, gratitude)?

Q3. Do you actively teach everyday Islamic manners (Akhlaq, honesty, greeting)?

Q4. Do you actively strive to be a calm, ethical role model for your children?

Q5. Do you spend dedicated, distraction-free meaningful time with your children daily?

Q6. Does your child feel safe sharing their feelings, fears, or mistakes openly with you?

Q7. Do you listen patiently to your child’s perspective without immediately interrupting or lecturing?

Q8. Do you regularly appreciate their positive efforts and character traits?

Q9. Do you successfully avoid yelling, name-calling, or harsh physical reactions during anger?

Q10. Are household boundaries and behavioral consequences clear, predictable, and fair?

Q11. Do you focus on restorative coaching and guidance rather than punitive punishment?

Q12. Do you and your spouse maintain unified, consistent discipline together?

Q13. Do you enforce healthy, agreed-upon limits on your child’s daily screen time?

Q14. Do you actively monitor and protect children from unwholesome digital media?

Q15. Does your family observe screen-free family meal times and bedtime routines?

Q16. Do you personally model healthy digital habits and phone discipline around your children?

Q17. Do you regularly read books, attend webinars, or seek knowledge to improve your parenting?

Q18. When you lose your temper or make a mistake, do you apologize and repair the relationship?

Q19. Do you regularly discuss your children’s emotional progress and needs with your spouse?

Q20. Do you make sincere, consistent Duas for your children’s righteousness and guidance?